What have i learned about myself from the past 4 years
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Today i am going to talking about what have i learned about myself from the past 4 years and i am trying to get rid of the bad habits i used to do. for example: when i get sad about something i dont want to talk to my family about it because i thought they will be sad and won't help be with my problem which is wrong because you will keep those sad or negative feeling inside you and then blow up suddenly and your family try to understand whats wrong with me but i am so stubborn that i say to them nothing but there is all of feelings and emotions inside me but i refuse to talk to them because i thought they will not understand me which is totally wrong because they are my family and of course they will understand what i am going through and will try to help me. sometimes i will complain to my friends unstead of my family because i thought my family will not get what i am dealing with? which is absloutely wrong and talk to your sisters or mother more often.
Second thing i have discovered about myself that i am so sensitive about what people say about me and if they dislike something i like which is not normal because you can't control people thought about you and if they say something negative about you or you dislike their talk or their opinion about something ask yourself : am i a bad person? did i do something wrong to people? if the answer is no. don't be sensitive about everything people say and if they answer is yes try to change yourself but not taking everything people say personally. i have learned about myself whether is positive or negative habits about me.
The last point i have learned about myself that i can't see people doing a bad thing and just be quiet i have to say something to them and tell them to do the right thing. for example: i see one of my friends cheat in an exam i will not tell the teacher or doctor about them instead i talk to them personally and tell them not to cheat again because it is aganist the rules and if the doctor/teacher see you cheat you will be expelled from the school/college. which is a good thing about me that i am always true to myself and to people if they ask me about anything. for example: if two of my friends are fighting i dont like to take side until i heard the whole story and then i will see whose fault is it and then decide which side i take? i am always thoughtful to myself and to my family which is a good thing in my personality.
I took the personality test, it tells you what is your personality like. when i saw the result i wasn't so suprised because there are some points are true and some are not true. the result of the test says I am protective person and it is true i can't see someone bothering or saying something bad about my loved ones and don't defend them because i love them so much,and i don't want people to hurt their feelings because i care to much about them and don't want anyone to hurt them sometimes it is good thing and sometimes it is the opposite. i have learned alot of being close to people you love sometimes they will leave you suddenly and you don't know why,after that i am learned they don't get attach to any person but your family because friends will come and go but family is also on your side.
alot of negative thoughts comes to my mind but i try to avoid them and think about positive or do something i like and develop it till i reach the hightest point.
Regards,
Nadia
Hope your having a great day
Today i am going to talking about what have i learned about myself from the past 4 years and i am trying to get rid of the bad habits i used to do. for example: when i get sad about something i dont want to talk to my family about it because i thought they will be sad and won't help be with my problem which is wrong because you will keep those sad or negative feeling inside you and then blow up suddenly and your family try to understand whats wrong with me but i am so stubborn that i say to them nothing but there is all of feelings and emotions inside me but i refuse to talk to them because i thought they will not understand me which is totally wrong because they are my family and of course they will understand what i am going through and will try to help me. sometimes i will complain to my friends unstead of my family because i thought my family will not get what i am dealing with? which is absloutely wrong and talk to your sisters or mother more often.
Second thing i have discovered about myself that i am so sensitive about what people say about me and if they dislike something i like which is not normal because you can't control people thought about you and if they say something negative about you or you dislike their talk or their opinion about something ask yourself : am i a bad person? did i do something wrong to people? if the answer is no. don't be sensitive about everything people say and if they answer is yes try to change yourself but not taking everything people say personally. i have learned about myself whether is positive or negative habits about me.
The last point i have learned about myself that i can't see people doing a bad thing and just be quiet i have to say something to them and tell them to do the right thing. for example: i see one of my friends cheat in an exam i will not tell the teacher or doctor about them instead i talk to them personally and tell them not to cheat again because it is aganist the rules and if the doctor/teacher see you cheat you will be expelled from the school/college. which is a good thing about me that i am always true to myself and to people if they ask me about anything. for example: if two of my friends are fighting i dont like to take side until i heard the whole story and then i will see whose fault is it and then decide which side i take? i am always thoughtful to myself and to my family which is a good thing in my personality.
I took the personality test, it tells you what is your personality like. when i saw the result i wasn't so suprised because there are some points are true and some are not true. the result of the test says I am protective person and it is true i can't see someone bothering or saying something bad about my loved ones and don't defend them because i love them so much,and i don't want people to hurt their feelings because i care to much about them and don't want anyone to hurt them sometimes it is good thing and sometimes it is the opposite. i have learned alot of being close to people you love sometimes they will leave you suddenly and you don't know why,after that i am learned they don't get attach to any person but your family because friends will come and go but family is also on your side.
alot of negative thoughts comes to my mind but i try to avoid them and think about positive or do something i like and develop it till i reach the hightest point.
Regards,
Nadia
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