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What have i learned about myself from the past 4 years

Hello everyone Hope your having a great day Today i am going to talking about what have i learned about myself from the past 4 years and i am trying to get rid of the bad habits i used to do. for example: when i get sad about something i dont want to talk to my family about it because i thought they will be sad and won't help be with my problem which is wrong because you will keep those sad or negative feeling inside you and then blow up suddenly and your family try to understand whats wrong with me but i am so stubborn that i say to them nothing but there is all of feelings and emotions inside me but i refuse to talk to them because i thought they will not understand me which is totally wrong because they are my family and of course they will understand what i am going through and will try to help me. sometimes i will complain to my friends unstead of my family because i thought my family will not get what i am dealing with? which is absloutely wrong and talk to your sisters o...

thinking in a negative way

 Hello everyone  Hope your having a great day  I have realize something about myself that no one knows i always think in negative way toward my  life.and i know it is not good for my health but because i think too much about every stiuation i face  in life and overthink every prospect, that if a person read my mind he will be shocked of me and will  wonder how do i think in this way. But now i am trying to change my way of thinking to achieve my dreams and move forward in life and i want you guys to help me change my way of think to develop my self and avoid these negative thoughts once in for all and keep moving forward in life and be happy no matter what happens to me. Regards, Nadia 

useless

Good evening everyone Hope your having a nice day I feel I am useless and can't do anything in life on my own I don't know why I am thinking in this negative and aggressive way. I think because I don't go out that much and haven't been writing or doing things I usually do like: writing or reading and I don't know why? maybe because I am not confident of myself and think too much about everything I want to do with my life but I don't know how to reach my goal? Anyways I just want to share some of my negative/mood /thought that I have on my mind regularly and I can't just get mad or angry with people for no reason that explains that I am the moodest person alive and I am trying to reduce my mood swings but I don't think I am trying hard. I hate people bossing me around thinking that I don't know what to do but all of these thoughts ruin my relationship and comunication with my family or friends. I just have to put a goal in my head and go aft...

Try and Explore new things

Today i am going to talk about trying new things in your life and see how does it effect you and if you like it or not because i have notice alot of  people don't like to try something different or new to them why is that? the answer is they judge things before trying and i will tell you something don't judge anything before trying maybe you will like to do it once or twice a week or will like to eat it  regularly.  For example: i used to dislike sushi and though i will never eat it but once i tried it i loved it and after that i told myself to never say no to new things and try,explore. trust me, you will find a different and beauitful side of your personality. always try something new about yourself. you will discover things you never though you liked and enjoy doing it with your friends or family.  for me, i like to do different things to know if i will like it or not because if you didn't try you will not know that you enjoy it for example: i dont like ...

afraid of rejection

Hello everyone Hope your having agreat day I just want to talk about being afraid of rejection and how to deal with it. First, you shouldn't take the comments from everyone personally because if you take every comment personally you will suffer alot in your life and you will think you can't do anything right which is wrong because every person is capable to do anything he set his mind in and believe in himself and don't be afraid of rejection. you will learn alot from the comments and you will try to avoid them to become better in the future. trust me, i am still dealing of being afraid of rejection but i have heard from many people that you will learn from it and maybe after awhile you will totally forget about them and you will be in a better place inshallah.  try to overcome your fear by developing yourself or thinking how you will act toward the rejections you face in your life and then you wil know you have overcome your problem by not reacting to every comment y...

how to control your emotions

Hello everyone Hope your enjoying your day I have to confess something about myself I can't control my emotions especially if i get anger and the people around me notice that and start to ask me what's wrong? are you ok? i just here these questions and blow up and i start to cry and scream for no reason and bring a lot of past events that happened to me which makes no sense at all. sometimes I feel I am the only person who can't control her emotions but of course I am not alone and there is alot of people around me are helping me deal with my emotions and how to react in every situation I face in my life. I am trying to overcome my emotions by not reacting in a stupid way or look like a child so, I want you guys to share with me how do you control and overcome your emotions in every situation you face in your life? Regards, Nadia

Why I Started blogging

I started to write blogs because I love to write and want to share my experiences and thoughts about life in general and let people feel different about every blog. I post and would like to hear their opinion and if they have gone through the same experiences or have the same thoughts I had which mean a lot to me and even if they have negative comments about my posts I will not take it personally. I will read every comment and try to develop my writing style and my aim to let people understand my blogs clearly. writing brings me joy in life and that why I started blogging and see others read my post makes me feel grateful that I have a talent in writing and want to explore my ideas, thoughts, and experiences with the world. Regards, Nadia 

Understand yourself

I know I haven't been posting a lot of blogs lately but I was busy in work so for today I have a topic to talk to you about which is about understand yourself in each situation you face in life because sometimes you will react so aggressively or you will just say a hurtful word or act inappropriately  in front of people which isn't a good idea to deal with people  You have to understand yourself before doing anything or say anything to any person alive which is the right way to change your behavior to be better and try to treat people as you treat yourself this is a good advice to say to you guys especially if you are struggling with any person in your life and always smile to let them know your a good person inside and outside. I have another advice which is treat yourself as you're treating your best friend, for example, spoil yourself when you get promotion  at work or when you get a good mark in exam or do some nice to yourself or others, change your reactions to...

happiness

Every person wants to be happy in their life but doesn't know how? because they are either afraid of change or afraid of losing people that they love.  you have to make sure you are doing the right thing for you and for your family to make them feel happy and safe with you so, talk with your family and tell them about your dreams and what do you want to be in the future and they will support you no matter what. you have to keep this quote in your mind (family always comes first) even if you're confused or afraid of something just talk to them and discuss it together and you will feel happy. happiness has a different definition for every person but for me if I see my family happy I am happy and they will always be there for me in ups and downs. if you're not feeling happy in your life go find what makes you happy and run after your dreams and don't avoid it because it will make you feel worse so I want to tell everyone try to find what makes you feel happy and go aft...

feelings

Every person feel different in each stage of his life well for me know I feel lost and i can't do anything about it because I have to make more effort to reach my dream so I just want to tell you guys don't give up on your dreams go and chase it and you will feel satisfied in the future because when you think of your past you will feel your ambitious person because you followed your dreams and didn't let any person let you down because they thought your not strong enough or brave to do what you're interested and passionate about.  You have to think positive and not the other way around because you will let your emotions control you which isn't a good thing at all this advice implies to me. I know you think I am crazy but I am not because I let my emotions and feelings control my behavior which is a bad thing and will affect your health and you will push Everyone away. it's okay to ask for help and for their opinions but you have to make your own decision...